Classical Girl’s Violin Debut at DWF Airport

I’m traveling this week, which makes for less blog time, so I thought I’d be lazy and deposit an old, favored blog in here that I wrote five-ish years ago. It’s about travel, so that counts, right? And it’s been a while since I’ve given my adult-beginners-on-the-violin readers a story, so here you go. I bet my adult-beginner-at-ballet readers will appreciate it too. New love, and all. It’s universal.


“Folks, we’re having a bit of a delay.”

I hear the message through the crackle of a faulty public address system at San Francisco International Airport. I am slumped in my plastic chair, Starbucks in hand, waiting for my 10:20am flight to start boarding, now that it’s 10:25am. These are words no traveling passenger with a connecting flight wants to hear. The gate agent sings out the news and ensuing updates cheerily, as if announcing picnic plans.

My layover at Dallas-Fort Worth Airport was to have been fifty-five minutes long. Then American Airlines, unfathomably, pushed the connecting flight forward by fifteen minutes, days before my departure. I now had a forty-minute layover. With a thirty minute delay. You do the math.

Hope springs eternal. At DFW, I run, push, vault luggage and small children as I tear through the terminals at an Olympic clip. I arrive at the gate, panting, sweating, just in time to see my plane trundling down the tarmac toward the runway. Or perhaps it wasn’t mine, I tell myself, as the gate agent, having taken my boarding pass, peers at her computer screen, taps furiously, then prints out a new boarding pass. “Here you are,” she says with a bright smile. “Your flight will board in…” she consults her watch, “approximately four hours.”

I stare at her, jaw agape, my mind a chaos of angry confusion. This can’t be happening. I’ve flown on this specific day, forfeiting spending my fifteen-year anniversary with my spouse, in order to be with my sister—recovering from brain tumor surgery, single-handedly raising three teens, her husband just shipped to Afghanistan for six months. Today is her birthday, and thanks to American Airlines, I am going miss a much anticipated—and needed—dinner celebration.

I splutter. I rant. I slap my hands on the counter for emphasis. I stop only when tears sting my eyes and clog my throat. Throughout, the airline agent retains a serene smile, the likes of which would have impressed—or chilled—the Buddha. As I stomp off, the ticket agent calls out for me to have a good day.

Teary, impassioned phone calls to both sister and spouse fail to quell the rage in me. It does, however, consume thirty minutes. Now only three and a half more hours remain before boarding my next flight. Drinking copious quantities of alcohol in the soulless gloom of an airport bar is a likely option, inevitably followed by an overpriced, over-processed, high-fat dinner in an equally soulless venue.

And then I remember what I have by my side. My violin. My baby. What luck.

There is one catch. Well, two. I took my practice mute out of the case that morning because it is metallic, heavy and vaguely suspicious-looking. If I am to practice my violin, it will have to be in a decidedly public fashion. Secondly, I am still a beginner. As an adult beginner, I often see people’s eyes light up with expectation when they see the violin case slung over my shoulder. Adult violinist, in their minds, equals proficient violinist. I feel like posting a sign on my case that reads, “It’s not what you’re thinking.” Yes, I can play, but the sounds I make are more befitting a seven year old in a taffeta dress and patent leather shoes. Further, I am an introvert. It is both daunting and humbling, perhaps even ridiculous to consider a public debut under such circumstances.

And yet…

My heart begins to judder. The gauntlet had been thrown. I need to do this.
I find an area, an abandoned waiting room and gate in the corner of Terminal B. The chairs have been pulled out, so no passengers loiter here. Beneath my feet is tired blue carpet, overhead, despondent fluorescent lights. Just outside the window I can see airplanes drawing up to the gates to disgorge passengers and load up more. I take a deep breath, pull my fiddle from its case on the floor, tighten my bow and begin.

The violin works its magic. The mellow tones of the open strings, followed by slow scales, are like the call-to-worship sound of church bells. They put me into place, encircle me in a aura of focus. And like that, I’m safe.

After scales and arpeggios, I play tunes—anything memorized, since my music followed my mute into the checked bag. Short, simple pieces, snippets of Bach and Mozart, folk tunes, Celtic fiddle tunes. It becomes all about the pleasure of creating resonant tones, of hitting that note right on the sweet spot, of finding the music within the music.

Although I’m not facing the pedestrian traffic, I still have a peripheral view of people walking by, regarding me curiously. Many of them smile. Some slow down. One guy approaches and watching me play up close, resulting in instant butterfingers on my part. Afterwards he confesses his eternal fascination with the instrument and I tell him, with a wry, self-deprecating shrug, that anyone can do it, trust me. An older couple passes, stops, and begs for a chord. I comply with a rousing double-stop. They applaud and tell me I should have my open case up front for them to throw their tip into.

I laugh, wave the people on, and glance down at my watch. To my astonishment, an hour has passed. As I pack up my violin ten minutes later and plan for dinner, I realize I no longer have the slightest interest in stopping at the bar for a drink. I don’t even feel like indulging in some heavy dinner—normally a prime source of entertainment and comfort to me. I no longer need it. I’ve found deeper nourishment.

7 thoughts on “Classical Girl’s Violin Debut at DWF Airport”

    • Thank you, Rachael! Thought of you and other members of the dance blogging/reading community yesterday while on this trip of mine. I was sitting at a café watching dozens upon dozens of well-dressed people crossing the way, all dressed up, and I’m 95% sure they were all bound for the ballet. A very, very, big name ballet company (and city). Now, I’m trying to be sort of secretive about where I am so that no one gets the idea to cyber-ransack my house in my absence, but let’s just say that it was a café within view of the Place de la Bastille. And that today I plan to attempt a ballet class in this city, in a foreign language that is, nonetheless, very recognizable for ballet dancers.

      All of this most decidedly another blog in the making. But first, time to play tourist some more. Thanks for popping by to comment!

      • Whoops, I stand corrected, I discovered yesterday. There are two opera venues in this city. One is “Opera de Bastille” and the other is THE opera, the home of the city’s opera and ballet companies. Imagine my surprise yesterday when I was trying to reconcile the map with my memory. Kept thinking “no, to visit the opera house (correction: the palace – and boy, do they do the term justice), I have to go back to that area by the café.” Nope.

        A hugely entertaining visit to the opera building – another “must blog about this” experience.

    • Trust me, Tara – you didn’t want to be there. Really. Or wait. Maybe it would have given you a good chuckle to hear the thin scratchings I produced so earnestly. ; )

      But hey. Fun to remember the story now, and always fun to see you comment here – thank you! When can we expect another blog from YOU?

      For my readers, Tara’s blog was featured on’s “Freshly Pressed,” one day a few months back, which means her blog entry for that day was chosen among thousands as being exceptional and worth reading and such. Great article that produced a mob of visitors and comments. Check it out at

    • Yes, the ballet class blog is coming up! Ironically, whereas the Palais Garnier stop was more exciting and original than I’d imagined, the ballet class ended up being rather underwhelming. Ah well, so life goes sometimes…


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